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Question by paschal: How can one get back ex wife or husband ?
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Answer by Non Sequitur
I don’t want my ex wife back.
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Question by TexasGirl’09: How do I get my husband back if he’s “left” on Separation, due to fights and divorce papers being filed?
We have dated 3 years, with our wedding being 10 months ago. This is a 2nd marriage for both of us. We had each been in long marriages (him 15 years; me 10 years). We had said before we got married that we “weren’t going to get a divorce; that this 2nd time around was for keeps and we didn’t want to put our kids through another divorce.” (he has 3 kids, I have 2 from my first marriage; all kids live with their other parent FT and then with us PT.)
We have had a roller-coaster relationship. We have such highs as a couple, but then also such lows as a couple. I have Bipolar Disorder and DO take my medication. My husband has admitted he has an Anger problem, meaning passive-aggressive, “Tit for Tat” kind of retaliation mentality…so when the two of us fight, we “kitchen-sink” all kind of issues, past & present included 
He told me before we got married he had a pot-smoking addiction–that his ex-wife kicked him to the curb b/c of it and then that was the impetus for him to try to “get clean” with NA/AA groups…but I think he was doing it for the wrong reason–for a chance to win his Ex back and his kids. (They did try to “date” after the divorce…but their issues kept them from working things out, so enter me into the picture, 3yrs post-divorce…yeah…I found out after I started dating him that he had tried to reconcile with her…talk about raising my insecurity issues–that’s another story.)
OK, so we’ve had a bunch of fights, break-ups, get-back-togethers, and he had moved into my mobile home when we got engaged. Not only to be a couple officially, but to split bills, b/c I can’t make it on my own, with SSDI and no help financially.
So fast-forward to a couple of fights: and afterward, I find out he would either sleep on a friend’s couch, or his old roommate’s (his best friend) and the next thing I know, he’s talking about moving out on these occasions? (2 times that I remember in the first 2 years of dating…)
OK, fast forward to my b’day week…that’s this August–mid-August…
We are on vacation at a tropical beach location, and this one guy friend of his keeps blowing up his cell phone with lots of ring-tone-identifying calls…but my husband doesn’t answer them in front of me…just makes comments about how the guy is a pest (which is what he’s always said b4, so it didn’t really phase me at this point…) Well, the calls kept continuing during the week, when we’d be in the car on the roadtrip across the state, and I finally asked him why he didn’t just answer the phone and tell the guy that he was on VAC and would just call him when he got back, as these incessant calls were becoming very annoying. So he called him, and I think he got his VM…can’t even remember—not even that important–but he told him that yes, he was on VAC like he told him, and was on the trip with me, and that he didn’t need to be calling, and he’d just call him back when he got home…a nice way of saying “don’t bug me”, right?
Well, the day we were leaving the beach town and decided to go to a souvenir store, we made our purchases and then got back in the car. He had left a baseball cap in the store, and then had 2nd thoughts about buying it, so I encouraged him to go in while I sat in the running car with a/c in the summer heat. So he was in the store maximum 5min, and that darn cell phone of his starts ringing with that same ring tone! And I’m thinking, WTF? Why is this guy still calling? So I just let it ring & ring…and then I hear that the guy left a VM, and I thought, “well, it must be an emergency for this guy to still be calling my husband after his prior call”. Normally, I do not touch my husband’s cell phone. But this was a combination of being annoyed by him vs. wondering what kind of emergency he had that warranted yet another call???
Well, I played back the VM and wish I never had…b/c the pesky friend was saying something to the effect of “I guess you changed your mind about what we talked about because you went ahead and went on vacation
So we get close to home, and he butters me up and says he’s sorry and I forgive him…partially b/c my parents have just flown into town that day and I’m heading back from b’day vacation trip to have to go see my
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Answer by NeeNee
Judging from your 1st 2 paragraphs (too long, I have a short attention span!), this is not a health place for your children or you. Move on and and find someone who is healthy!
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Question by LisaL: How do you get over your husband talking to his ex girlfriend behind your back?
what do you do when you find out that your husband has done this? He says it was innocent…I think he is telling me the truth but don’t know how to get over feeling betrayed esp. because I found out that these conversations happened while we were fighting (I believe his guilt led to our fight) and when I was out of town. And I found out from his ex-wife who is an evil wITCH and told me with a smile on her face (apparently her and the ex girlfriend are evil twin buddies now). I cry when I think about it and I know I am making myself crazy and strengthening the wall now built between me and my husband.
fyi…it was on the phone and never in person
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Answer by Molly
you either forgive and forget and move on. Or you let yourself go crazy over it.
If you cant trust him, there is no marriage.
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Are you a husband who wishes your wife was more affectionate and more intimate with you?
Are you a husband who is tired of plain, boring, uninspiring, unenthusiastic sex with your wife?
Do you wish there was more real enthusiasm, feeling, passion, excitement, and closeness when you and your wife make love?
As you think about wanting a better kind of marriage relationship with your wife, consider the following…
As a wife observes and interacts with her husband, she is ALWAYS asking herself two questions:
1. Can I trust him?
2. Is he attractive?
Of course, these questions are mostly at a subconscious level…but the answers are readily manifested in a woman by the feelings she has towards her husband. And more specifically, by the degree of closeness, affection, intimacy, and passion she exhibits towards her husband.
As a wife watches the way her husband operates…as she watches how he interacts with her…as she watches how he interacts with any children they have…as she listens to what he says…or doesn’t say…as she watches the choices and decisions he makes…as she watches the directions in life that he takes…as she watches the people in his life and gauges their quality and caliber…and particularly who is coming in and who is going out of his life and their life…as she watches dozens of patterns, attitudes, and behaviors that all reveal what kind of man she is with, she develops a FEELING of whether she can trust her husband.
As a wife looks at her husband’s level of manliness and masculinity…as she looks at his level of strength and courage…as she looks at his level of lovingness, consideration, and empathy…as she looks at his achievements and accomplishments…as she looks at his abilities…as she looks at his growth and development…as she looks at his abilities and results in the areas of their relationship, their children and family, money, health, and spirituality…as she looks at dozens of features and characteristics in her husband that are manifested in all kinds of ways on a daily basis, she develops a FEELING of whether her husband is attractive and sexually desirable or not.
And, LOGIC will not ever change how a wife feels in relation to her husband. The only thing that will change her is when the husband learns how to change the FEELINGS that he is generating within her towards himself and towards herself.
As a husband, have you ever told your wife your wife in some way that things need to step up in the sex department?
Most husbands have…and NONE of them got any results that lasted…and in most cases, the situation got even worse.
Why is this?
It’s because the husband is interacting with his wife on a logical level.
Everyday this plays out…a husband wants more sex…and the real kicker is that HIS WIFE WANTS MORE SEX TOO…but he is on a logical level and his wife is on an emotional level…and neither of them know how to come together onto the same level.
And, the problem is that the wife simply cannot get to the sexual place her husband wants her to be at…and that she WANTS to be at…because her passion, her desire, and her body respond to the feelings she has about her husband. She goes by her feelings…no matter how right or wrong…no matter how correct or incorrect…no matter how accurate or misguided they are.
A wife is like a deer…a deer pays very little attention to what it sees…it goes by what it smells. A deer doesn’t trust its eyesight but it implicitly trusts its sense of smell. It’s the same with a woman. She doesn’t trust logic, explanation, analysis, or argument — ALL OF WHICH IS WHAT THE TYPICAL HUSBAND IS SPEWING AT HIS WIFE ON AN ONGOING BASIS — all of which only makes the woman FEEL even worse in relation to her husband.
And to her husband’s sexual detriment, she trusts, responds to, and goes by her feelings…even if they aren’t the feelings that she wants.
The point is, unless and until a husband learns how to generate good feelings within his wife towards him and towards herself, he will continue to experience lovemaking sessions that are dispiriting…he will continue to have a wife who has low sexual desire FOR HIM…and that is evidenced by his wife’s lack of interest, passion, and desire before, during, and after sex.
Perhaps you know how unsatisfying, ungratifying, and disheartening this kind of sex is. If so, you should know that you CAN learn how to create the kind of sexual encounters that you DO want to have with your wife. Those men who enjoy a high-quality, high-frequency sex-life learned how to do it and so can you.
Copyright 2011, Article by Calle Zorro of MarriedAndHappy.com
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